We’ve arranged information in the caring blog in a way we hope you’ll find easy to use.

  • Home page contains our blogs, where we discuss specific dementia issues.
  • Stage pages, early-, middle- and late-stage, contain general information and links to tips and tools on the This Caring Home website.
  • Blog Categories (right sidebar) is a list of topics covered in our individual blogs.
  • Archives (home page, lower right sidebar) contains our past blogs arranged by months.

the caring blog is a project of Weill Cornell Medical College in New York City and is a companion effort to the This Caring Home website to bring support to caregivers. Rosemary Bakker is the creator of both This Caring Home and the caring blog. Click here to email Rosemary Bakker.

About Rosemary

Rosemary Bakker, MS, ASID, is a gerontologist, a certified interior designer, a dementia specialist, and Project Director of ThisCaringHome.org, a website for caregivers of persons with dementia. She is an adjunct academic staff member at Weill Cornell Medical College.

Rosemary with her mother, Arlene

Rosemary is a former caregiver to her mother, Arlene, who had Alzheimer’s disease. She understands first hand how difficult and rewarding caregiving can be. Most importantly, she learned how a dementia-friendly environment can make caregiving less difficult and more fulfilling.

When it was no longer safe for her mother to live at home, Arlene moved into an Assisted Living for residents with dementia in New York City. Alarmed at the lack of staff training on dementia care, Rosemary started a Family Council and acted as President for over 5 years, advocating for enhanced care.


Rosemary is the recipient of many awards for her innovative educational projects and has authored two books on interior design and aging: Penguin Books (1997) and Lark Books (2010).

ThisCaringHome.org, a project of Weill Cornell Medical College, was the proud winner of the 2010 National Alzheimer’s Caregiver Award, sponsored by the National Alliance for Caregiving with support from the MetLife Foundation.

About ThisCaringHome.org

It is estimated that Alzheimer’s disease affects 5.3 million Americans and that number is expected to double by 2050. Caregivers shoulder a particularly heavy burden as the illness alters the dementia patient’s behavior, mood and judgment, impeding his or her ability to engage in normal, everyday activities.

In response to this mounting public health challenge, experts at Weill Cornell Medical College have spent four years creating ThisCaringHome.org, an interactive, multimedia Web site for caregivers of Alzheimer’s and other dementia patients. The Web site, which received the 2009 e-Healthcare Leadership Award, helps caregivers learn strategies to better care for people with dementia, especially how to adapt the home environment to meet the behavioral and physical needs of people with Alzheimer’s.

Created by Rosemary Bakker, M.S., A.S.I.D., adjunct research associate in gerontologic design in medicine in the Division of Geriatrics and Gerontology at Weill Cornell Medical College, the site features videos, animations and photographs, as well as expert reviews of home furnishings and smart technologies. Ms. Bakker, a former caregiver to her mother, has put her first-hand knowledge to use in the creation of this web site.

“Persons with dementia and their caregivers deserve better lives and more help with the everyday challenges they face,” Ms. Bakker says. “When I was a caregiver, I learned that people with Alzheimer’s experience the world differently than we do. Once you understand this, there is a lot caregivers can do, especially to the home environment, to help the person lead a safer, more functional and fulfilling life. And it makes caregiving less difficult and more rewarding. But without guidance, it’s easy to get overwhelmed.”

While much has been written about Alzheimer’s, this graphics-rich interactive Web site shows how best to adapt a home for persons with Alzheimer’s disease and related disorders, enhancing the individual’s safety and independence. The 3-D animations, videos and written content illustrate the complex process of changing the home to match the stage of the patient’s disease.

The Web site takes visitors on a “virtual” visit through every room of a house, demonstrating in detail how to deal with issues that might arise in the kitchen, bathroom, living room and bedroom. Best practices for safe bathing, how to install stove turn-off devices and timers, what lighting is necessary to soothe an agitated person, and what to look for in a door monitoring device, among many other subjects, are addressed.

Other sections include tips for reducing agitated behaviors and improving quality of life for those with dementia, such as playing favorite old songs, receiving an aromatherapy massage, and playing with a docile pet.

While ThisCaringHome.org is geared toward family caregivers, it is also invaluable for physicians, nurses, hospital discharge planners, social workers and assisted-living facility managers, all of whom must increasingly deal with dementia and memory loss among their patients.

“ThisCaringHome.org covers every conceivable subject that may arise for the person caring for the dementia patient,” says Dr. Ron Adelman, professor of medicine and co-chief of the Division of Geriatrics and Gerontology at Weill Cornell Medical College and director of the Irving Sherwood Wright Center on Aging at NewYork-Presbyterian Hospital/Weill Cornell Medical College. “So often the caregiver feels that he or she is alone or that no one has encountered their particular problem before. The interactive nature of this site, and the very fact that it’s visually engaging and easy to navigate, draws people into an extremely informative, online community that can help ease some of the caregiver burden.”

Source: Weill Cornell Medical College